13 Elements about giving Oral sex to her!

Just like men, women love oral sex, ok most women love oral sex. We had a friend that wrinkled her nose one day while talking about oral sex. Maybe her husband did not know what he was doing while he was down there. I have had lots of inquiries to my blog about the 13 elements of a blow job, which made me think about eating a woman out. What 13 elements are there about oral sex for a woman. Ladies if I have seemed to miss one please feel free to comment.

1- Know the area- That's right, do some research, we love looking at women, so why not study the layers of folds of a womans pussy. If you fortunate to have a patient significant other that will let you look and examine, take advantage of it. Ask her what areas are sensitive, pay attention to what she tells you.

2- Watch Lesbian porn- Granted not all porn is good, however, women usually know best what feels good. Again this is researchable material, pay attention to the areas that they concentrate on the most. I usually find the amateur stuff more realistic than the paid professional stuff.

3- Warm up- No woman likes if you just spread her legs apart. Take time kissing, fondling, running your hands through her hair. Soft kisses on her breasts, slowly working your way down, just as you are about to embark to the zone, go back to her mouth, sucking in her lower lip, working your way down again, this time spreading her legs, kissing softly teasing the area.

4- Positioning- Most times when you watch porn the position is not the best. The position that they show is made for the camera, not for the participants. I like to kneel next to her, knees about to her rib cage, spreading her legs, using my arms and body to keep her spread open. This also allows me to reach under, grabbing her ass, spreading the whole area for me to see and enjoy.

5- Long licks- Starting at the hood, I lick down each side, taking time to lick that soft skin at the very bottom. My tongue even licks the area between the anus and vaginal opening. While I do this, I also make sure to deposit some saliva to the area to add some lubrication for my fingers as well. Even if you have warmed her up, lubrication will be needed, saliva works temporarily.

6- Sucking- After the long licks, I head back toward the hood sucking in the labia. Running my tongue over them, swirling them in my mouth. Finally reaching the clit, I make sure I dart my tongue over it a few times. Feeling her body quiver with the intense stimulation.

7- Variety- You now have her attention, create a variety between the licks and sucking. Teasing her clit, until you have reached a point where you want to concentrate exclusively on the clit. Just remember, this is foreplay to the orgasam itself. Take your time, don't rush it, let her enjoy what your doing to her. Even when you have her on the ropes about to orgasam, change what your doing, making her beg for you to continue. Its fun to tease them, it really is fun to hear them beg.

8-Fingers- The next few elements will deal with your hands and fingers. While my tongue is busy with the clitorus. I use my thumb to run the lips like I did before with my tongue. I love to involve the whole area, I want her to enjoy several sensations at once. Even when I stop the intense clit stimulation. I keep my thumb busy, I don't want to leave her hanging completely. I want her on that edge.

9-Lubrication- This is very important also, the saliva like I said was temporary. Ky gets sticky and tacky, make sure you buy something that gives you the wet feeling. We have found that Astroglide works pretty well, gives a real slickery feeling that remains for a long time.

10-Anus-Thats right gentleman and ladies, I did say anus. With the right amount of foreplay, the anus can become an intrigual part of oral sex. With plenty of Astroglide I like to massage the rim of the anus with my forefinger or middle finger, slowly applying pressure while my mouth and thumb are busy. Like I said, I involve the whole area, the anus is full of nerve endings. Try it you or she may like it. I became curious about this when watching women masturbate, I noticed how sometimes their fingers would brush the anus or so it appeared.

11- Vaginal insertion- While my mouth is concentrating on the clit, sometimes I insert my thumb. If I do not have the right angle for the job, I will use the fingers from my other hand. You NEVER insert fingers that have been near or in the anus. Infections can occur from this, it is not good for either of you. Remember the womans g-spot is on the front wall, curve your finger and you may be able to find the special spot and drive her crazy. I usually wait till almost the end for this option during the experiance. Hoping to send her over the edge or as a distraction to make it last longer.

12- Anal insertion- Yes after the area is nice and warmed up, I will insert my finger to about the second knuckle. Once my finger is inserted it is amazing how smoothe the inner walls are, I have read where the rectum is full of nerves that connected to the back wall of the vagina. I will massage the inner wall like I do with my other hand in the vagina. I do find this does trigger some other sensations for her, quite enjoyable ones. Depending on her mood, I will also finger fuck her ass, another sensation that I combine with the massaging. Always alternating between the two, hoping to give her the ultimate in orgasams.

13- Putting it all together- Remember to start off slow, warming her up in all aspects of the event. Gentle and loving, slowly progressing to more intense sensations. Listen to what she tells you, communication is the biggest key in any relationship. Even when it comes to sex. If you are not happy in the bedroom, communicate it, work together to make each other happy. Take time to learn your partner, their likes and dislikes, use some of these techniques which I have shared with you today. You may find that you and your partner have a new found pleasure while you are between their legs.


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